Blessing

 



Asking people

that they lay hands on me

and give their blessings

while kneeling in front of them.

 

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People who give their blessing:



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I interrupted the journey and meet a friend for breakfast.

The young man helps his friend and prepares us a very good omelette.

In the evening, looking for a place to stay, he happens to stop next to me - I can sleep with him.

Also the next few days: He helps a lot, not only me.

What makes it so special: His beautiful tranquility and inner friendliness.

 

 

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I interrupt the pilgrimage and want to meet a friend in Kota.


I have to spend the night at the train station.


There's a little garden in the train station.


I ask permission to stay overnight.


The railway police send me to a wonderful colleague,

with whom I can exchange ideas about spirituality.



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In the first ashram they don't take care of me.


But the priest celebrates a beautiful ritual with his students.


In the end he takes me to his ashram.


I marvel at his pure, genuine kindness.


His students, although very young, reflect this purity.


 

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The man says I'm the first to notice his blindness straight away.

It's nice to look at him. 

Although one can tell that his open eyes are never in exactly the right direction, one get the feeling that he is present and understands everything.

 Sometimes understanding even more?

 Is there even an advantage to being blind?

 


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Oh, that hasn't happened in a long time: I'm simply turned away in an ashram.


The women point in a direction where I should go instead.





But right next to them lies a small hidden ashram:


The guru there looks like a spiritual lifestyle which I don't model: drugs.


But his mind is deep-observant and he has good intuition.


I like him somehow.


The next day, I am generously gifted by some of his followers.



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It's dark, I'm rejected again by an ashram. But only briefly, the priest comes and persuades his old mother that I can stay.

 

But he himself appraises me strangely and touches me noticeable often - the dog is very afraid of him.

 

After half an hour I say goodbye.

 




Next door is an ashram with a friendly welcoming atmosphere; the whole family smiles, although there are language difficulties.

 

Grandfather is reserved. He looks odd with his damaged, crooked glasses. But he always understands when I need something.

 

I am happy because my spare glasses look good on him.

 


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It's a maybe 9-year-old boy who entangles me in an engaging conversation on a street corner. His English is fluent, his questions and responses are very interesting for his age.

 

The attentive grandfather invites me to his home for refreshments.

 

A fine, educated gentleman.

 

He worries about his grandson, whether he is under too much pressure to perform for his age.

 

I feel very enriched by this family. So rich that I can even refuse a large gift of money.


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Unfortunately, I cannot stay in this school ashram any longer.

 

But the wounds on my feet prevent me from going any further.

 

Rishikesh sits opposite a Sai Baba sculpture.

 

He works at the doctor's and takes me there;

 

takes care of housing and school visits and everything. 

 

After 8 days it is difficult for us to say goodbye.

 

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Rishikesh brings me to this great man.

 

He not only shows a wonderful, noble appearance,

 

his thoughts and values are very precious.

 

Thank you Thorat Maharaj.


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In the middle of Maharashtra. 

 

Suddenly a church every day and Catholics in every village.

  

Here someone listens with dear patience to my suffering

 

about politics, pandemic and Deep State.

 

Understanding and warm.


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The monsoon season has begun.


The night quarter in front of the small school is nice, but the canopy is very narrow in case it's going to rain.


The neighbor comes along. He opens a classroom - it's safer. He cares with a binding distance.


The next morning we meditate in front of his Buddha sculpture. A Vipassana student.


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Then heaven gives me another surprise: I am taken to an ashram of the Hare Krishna movement.

In the guest house, the father takes me to a beautiful room with a soft bed and a modern bathroom.

I can stay here for several days.

We're about the same age. His face is full of warmth and engaging depth.


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Again someone pulls up next to me on their moped, asking questions and asking for a selfie. As a thanks, he drives me to his friend's "hotel" and invites me to lunch.

 

It's just friend's family at the restaurant right now. All exude positivity and friendliness. Also the young girl and the grandparents: good and sincere from the inside.


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At a tea kiosk I once again ask for a mobile hotspot as my Vodafone SIM card rarely works well in this region.

 

Unexpectedly, a young man asks if I wanted a "better" Airtel SIM card. I'm happily perplexed because as a foreigner it's not easy to get Indian SIM cards.

 

Moments later, the inconspicuous young fellow hands me a card that even has credit on it for a few days. I marvel at his compassionate generosity.


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On the way across the fields we meet a farmer's wife.

Most peasant women react with fear, even resentment, when they see a stranger on their property.

This one has an alert, intelligent demeanor. She invites us to tea.

My host says that she meditates, even practices Vipassana.

Her nature touches me internally.


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A boy along the way speaks English very well.

Very politely, he and his grandfather fulfill my wish for fruit refreshment in their house nearby.

They want to do me more good. I stupidly talk about money and suddenly the wise man hands me a Rs 2000 note.

But I feel well taken care of and I easily refuse the gift. Instead, the mature man bestows a long, warm, fulfilling blessing.

 


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He comes back on his motorcycle and asks if he can help me.

He invites to his self-designed KARMA Cafe: 

Excellent coffee without water, only with buffalo milk.

His hands rest on my head for a long time with warm, creative energy.

He gives two most delicious mangoes for the further way.


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A tea stall.

The young man looks a little tired.

He asks the usual questions.

But reacts differently to my usual answers.

Seriously, thoughtfully.

I feel honored by his mute way of reacting.


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I'm lucky that a mobile food truck is already offering breakfast.

That guy over there is very young.

He serves me competently and pleasantly; he has a mature, kind face.

He serves more than I ordered - for free.

As I walk on, I feel that I want to see him again - and ask for his blessing.

When I turn around, he's just stopping behind me on his motorbike.


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I just wanted to ask the moped driver for directions.

It becomes an invitation to lunch at his house.

His whole family treats me with respect.


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I had spent the night in the village temple.

A few people gather at breakfast next door.

One follows me.

He still wants to help me somehow.


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My phone seemed lost - very good.

Because suddenly these people showed up

and were ready to help. Which was no longer necessary.

But I got to know them as great therapists.

They made me feel like part of a family.


 


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Sunset. In a village I ask a woman for water.

 

She doesn't understand anything but is scared and yells at me.

 

A few steps further a temple. Young people sit on the wall.

 

One speaks English and brings me water.

 

And I can sleep in the temple too.

 

Later the priest and numerous curious people come.

 

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There are few Christians in the new state of Karnataka.

 But there is a church.

 In the twilight I see a man, I wave to him.

 It`s the priest and he offers me a place to sleep in the sacristy.

 There are precious things on the wall, even gilded ones.


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At first it looked like 

I could sleep on the meadow behind the temple 

- it's not possible. 

Maybe in an ashram? - Risky! 

- Then he takes me to his house. And explains Hinduism.


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The evening with the helpful Navas was planned differently. 

In the end I am an overnight guest in his parents' house. 

The father radiates even more friendly frankness than Navas himself.



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Break at the roadside. A foot hurts.

 A young Muslim woman comes with her little brother. 

They hand me a snack - with a nice greeting from their father. 

A very peaceful aura.



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Search for accommodation.

The first understands only a little, but helps further. 

The next speaks English and manages the situation excellently, 

his blessing lasts more than 15 minutes.

The third is silent. He executes and gives more than he should.


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Again in the house of a Pentecostal pastor.

He speaks a mighty torrent of prayers.


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Never before at Bodhi Zendo

I noticed a person who enters

rooms, spaces as consciously as Mark.

Deeply respectful to everything and everyone.


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In the begin this young man

left an intelligent, but slightly superficial impression on me.

But not at all:

Already so committed, disciplined and inwardly developed.



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Finally: The first woman

who is willed to spend me her blessing.

A warm, mature energy

streams out from her hands.


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His son Babu not only let me

work free of charge for this 

BLOG in his Institute, 

but he also invites to spend 

the night in his house. 

The whole family

shows warm feelings 

of being welcome.



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It's already dark when I get to his house. 

Although he barely understands my English, 

he makes a polite bow and signals to spend the night in his room. 

His son joins and makes it clear 

that we have some essential things in common.

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Upon arriving at the Sriguru Temple

Maghesh, a volunteer, met me.

He seldom left my side for 13 days.

He cared.


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7 km in the south of Palani: 

An Art painter opens the gate 

of his property without any questions. 

He and his two sons are taking care of homeless animals as well.


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Wasan, a preacher of a 

christian community. 

His wife allowed Adarsh and me

to spend in there house the 

first night of this pilgrimage.



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A 20 year old guy 

ran away from his family in Kerala,

following his particular convictions about realization.

We meet on the street in front of an Osho meditation center.


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After half an hour on a rainy country road:

On the other side of the road, four young motorcyclists 

have found shelter from the rain.

 They wave to me and signal to put me under there.

 


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Forgotten situations.





The blessing


of this particular people


will continue to support me.












=

They themselves


shall be blessed.






Comments

  1. Anonymous28/4/22 13:35

    I am inspired by his keen interest in people while understanding true essence of life. Putting oneself on the edge of life trying to understand how life evolves and manifests takes huge courage and conviction. My complements and best wishes to Ralf

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  2. Anonymous7/8/22 23:08

    Ralf I just read through all of this and was deeply touched. Much love, Shenaz

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